Am I Manipulative Quiz -

Someone gives you constructive criticism. You…

Thank them for their feedback

Point out their flaws in retaliation

Reflect on it and see if it's valid

Get defensive and argue against it

You're telling a story to friends. You…

Emphasize the humorous parts

Twist the narrative to make yourself the victim

Keep it factual and objective

Exaggerate details to make yourself look better

You made a mistake. You…

Make excuses and blame external factors

Turn it around and make it seem like it was someone else's fault

Own up to it and apologize sincerely

Offer a genuine explanation for what happened

Your friend is feeling down. You…

Try to distract them with something fun

Turn the conversation back to your own problems

Make them feel worse by comparing their problems to your own (bigger) issues

Listen empathetically and offer support

You want to go out tonight, but your partner wants to stay in. You…

Give them the silent treatment until they change their mind

Respect their decision and stay in

Suggest a compromise like watching a movie at home

Say you'll go alone but act upset to make them feel guilty

You want someone to do something they don't want to. You...

Offer a reasonable explanation for why it's important

Respect their decision

Sulk and act disappointed until they give in

Make them feel like they owe you

A coworker receives praise for a project you helped with. You…

Downplay their role and emphasize your own effort

Casually mention your contributions to others

Confront them and demand they give you credit

Feel happy for their success

You compliment someone...

Because you genuinely appreciate something about them

Only if you want something from them

To brighten their day

With an ulterior motive in mind

Someone compliments you. You...

Return the compliment

Assume they want something from you

Downplay their compliment and point out your own flaws

Say "thank you" sincerely

You disagree with someone's opinion. You...

Mock their opinion and make them feel foolish

Make them doubt themselves and their perspective

Engage in a respectful debate, open to different viewpoints

Respect their right to think differently