Should I Cut Off My Parents? Quiz -

How do your parents handle disagreements or conflicts with you?

They try, but sometimes things get heated

They calmly discuss and resolve issues

They yell, accuse, or refuse to listen

They tend to escalate things or get defensive

Do your parents respect your personal life, privacy, and boundaries?

They overstep sometimes, but not too much

They respect most things, but not everything

Yes, completely

No, they regularly invade my privacy

How do your parents treat your friends, partner, or chosen family?

They are polite but distant

They openly dislike or disrespect them

They criticize them but tolerate them

They are kind and welcoming

How often do your parents make you question your self-worth?

Occasionally, but not too often

Fairly often, though it’s not intentional

Never, they make me feel valued

All the time, I feel worthless around them

Do your parents acknowledge and apologize for their mistakes?

Yes, they take full responsibility

No, they never admit fault

They brush it off or justify their behavior

Sometimes, but it’s rare

Do your parents try to control your life decisions (career, relationships, etc.)?

They give advice, but let me decide

No, they trust me to make my own choices

Yes, they try to control every aspect of my life

They pressure me, but I can push back

Do your parents expect you to meet unrealistic standards or demands?

Sometimes, but they’re not too strict

No, they just want me to be happy

They set impossible standards and I’m always failing

Yes, they have high expectations

How do your parents react when you set boundaries?

They react negatively or get upset

They completely respect them

They’re willing to listen and compromise

They sometimes ignore or push them

How do your parents respond when you express your emotions?

They dismiss or invalidate my feelings

They listen and support me

They try to comfort me, even if they don’t fully get it

They brush it off or change the subject

How optimistic are you about improving your relationship with your parents?

Unsure, it feels like a long shot

Very optimistic, things can definitely improve

Not at all, I don’t see things getting better

Somewhat optimistic, but it will take effort

How would you describe your parents’ communication style?

Well-meaning but sometimes unclear

Harsh, manipulative, or aggressive

Open and respectful

Critical and judgmental

How do you feel after spending time with your parents?

Neutral or fine

Energized and happy

A bit stressed but okay

Drained or upset