Should I Marry Him ? Quiz

Does he treat you with respect?

Always

Rarely

Usually

Sometimes

Does he genuinely appreciate you and your unique qualities?

I don't feel the need for constant appreciation

I rarely feel appreciated by him

Sometimes, but I wish it were more frequent

Yes, he expresses his appreciation often

Is your love for each other unconditional, or based on certain expectations?

My feelings depend on his behavior

It's strong, but there are certain boundaries

I'm not sure what unconditional love means

Our love is unconditional, no matter what

Are you physically attracted to each other and compatible in the bedroom?

Physical intimacy isn't a priority for us

Yes, we have a strong physical connection

I'm uncomfortable discussing physical compatibility

We're attracted to each other, but intimacy could be improved

Do you communicate openly?

Mostly

Never

Not often

Yes, easily

Does he motivate you to be the best version of yourself?

Yes, he inspires me to reach for my goals

Not really, he can be discouraging at times

Sometimes, but it depends on the situation

I don't feel like I need his motivation

Do you share household responsibilities fairly, or does one person take on most of the work?

We haven't discussed household responsibilities yet

I end up doing most of the housework and chores

We split things up, but adjustments might be needed

We share responsibilities equally

Does he consistently put in effort to make the relationship strong and keep the spark alive?

Yes, he always tries to make things special

I feel like I'm the one putting in most of the effort

He puts in effort, but it could be more consistent

We haven't focused on putting much effort into the relationship lately

Can you be your true, authentic self around him, without feeling judged?

Always, I feel completely comfortable

Most of the time, but there are situations where I hold back

No, I feel like I have to put on an act sometimes

I'm still figuring out who I truly am

Do you fully accept each other, flaws and all?

Yes, completely

Mostly, but there are a few things that bug me

I'm not sure if I truly know all his flaws yet

No, I constantly wish he would change certain things

Are you on the same page about wanting children (or not wanting them)?

We're open to discussing it further

We haven't seriously talked about children yet

We disagree on wanting children, which is a major issue

Yes, we completely agree on having children

Do you envision a real future together, with shared goals and dreams?

We haven't seriously talked about the future

My future plans don't necessarily include him

Absolutely, we're on the same page

We have some ideas, but haven't discussed them in detail

Should I Marry Him ? Quiz

Your relationship has all the key ingredients for a healthy, lasting marriage built on love, trust, compatibility, shared values and an aligned vision for the future. You're ready to take that next step

While your relationship is fairly strong, there are some potential areas of concern or incompatibility that should be resolved through open communication and work before proceeding with marriage

Your relationship faces significant challenges around core compatibility, trust, effort, intimacy and agreement on major issues like children. Serious relationship work is needed before considering marriage

There is a lack of certainty, compatibility, intimacy and agreement on fundamentals in your relationship currently. Postpone any idea of marriage until you gain much clearer through self-work, counseling or re-evaluation